The symmetry of the superconducting order parameter in quasi-two-dimensional BEDT-TTF organic superconductors is a subject of ongoing debate. We report ab initio density functional theory calculations for a number of organic superconductors containing κ-type layers. Using projective Wannier functions we derive parameters of a common low-energy Hamiltonian based on individual BEDT-TTF molecular orbitals. In a random phase approximation spin-fluctuation approach we investigate the evolution of the superconducting pairing symmetry within this model and point out a phase-transition between extended s+dx2−y2 and dxy symmetry. We discuss the origin of the mixed order parameter and the relation between the realistic molecule description and the widely used dimer approximation. Based on our ab initio calculations we position the investigated materials in the obtained molecule model phase diagram and simulate scanning tunneling spectroscopy experiments for selected cases. Our calculations show that many κ-type materials lie close to the phase transition line between the two pairing symmetry types found in our calculation, possibly explaining the multitude of contradictory experiments in this field.